Without going into too much personal detail, the tragedy that struck Jennifer Hudson and her family this week has left me so sad these past few days. I can’t even begin to write about all the women and men I know (even fam) who do not make wise decisions when it comes to their children’s well-being. We live in a selfish world that seeks to place the needs of SELF above others. I feel so strongly about this that if I ever had children and divorced or God-forbid my partner was called Home early, I wouldn’t really consider dating until my child/ren were grown and out of the house, unless Jesus Christ came down and there was writing in the sky that my new partner and child/ren got along beautifully. Kids have an intuition that most adults miss out on. I’ve just seen too much destruction to children from these situations, and it’s something I don’t personally agree with. I know that we all have secrets and dark spots in our lives, but sometimes “love” really does blind you.
Somebody made a comment on another website that summed up my thoughts:
But let this be a lesson to women who just cannot leave bad seeds alone! You cannot change these men and honest to god no amount of loneliness or whatever it is that draws them to you is worth having them in your life. And those that are mothers – dear god please think of your children. Your children are your priority first, last and always. I know that even the most respectable of men can have deep secrets or commit heinous crimes such as this – but when the handwriting is on the wall like this as it had to have been when Julia King met this man… the red flags were seriously waving. I think that there is probably a bit more to this story than anyone is aware – but the bottom line is that Balfour was a man that no woman with a child should have ever gotten involved with..
Every time I see this on the news…even thinking about it while typing this makes me cry 
. I’m so tired of the violence in our communities, especially the violence toward our young men… I need a happy post soon. I’ll be an advocate for the kids until the day that I die. I wish people would star treating them like YESHUA did. They are our FUTURE.
